It is a curious subject of observation and inquiry, whether hatred and love be not the same thing at bottom. Each, in its utmost development, supposes a high degree of intimacy and heart-knowledge; each renders one individual dependent for the food of his affections and spiritual life upon another; each leaves the passionate lover, or the no less passionate hater, forlorn and desolate by the withdrawal of his object. Nathaniel Hawthorne
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When love is present, hatred is absent. It is not possible to hate the one whom you love. This is what this passage is referring to. When you are in love, you can’t hate anyone or anything.

You are able to be very angry at someone being cruel, but that person being cruel towards the person you love will only make you angry with them and not with that person. How can you hate someone when you are in love?

Source: The Scarlet Letter

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